Chrysalis News – February 16, 2012
Chrysalis Announcements:
REMEMBER – NO SCHOOL MONDAY, February 20 - PRESIDENTS’ DAY HOLIDAY. SCHOOL WILL RESUME ON TUESDAY; REMEMBER SCHOOL IS OUT AT 2:00pm ON TUESDAY. THANKS!
Chrysalis Parent Club Meeting
Attention all Chrysalis Parents! Our Chrysalis Parent Club (CPC) meeting this month will be Tuesday, February 21st 6pm at Chrysalis. Please plan to attend if at all possible. We will be addressing several important decisions that need as much input as possible. Topics to be discussed include budget amendments, distribution of existing funds and planning for the rest of the year. Thank you in advance for taking time out to attend and have your voice heard!
Enterprise Starship Concert Field Trip – Shasta Learning Center
On Wednesday, February 22nd, all of our students will attend a concert by Enterprise High School Starship music organization. It is always a great concert. Sara, Cheri, and Crystal’s classes are attending the first performance in the morning. They will leave campus at 8:25am and return at 10:45am. All other children, from Emily’s class up, will leave campus at 10:15am and will return at 12:15pm.
Romeo and Juliet - Oregon Shakespeare Festival - Friday, April 13
Once again we will be taking students to the Oregon Shakespeare Festival’s production of Romeo and Juliet up in Ashland Oregon. The Festival is world-class theatre, providing an outstanding opportunity for students to experience the power of the stage. The Festival is very supportive of educating the next generation so the group tickets are quite reasonable and the same for students and accompanying parents alike. After the production, students will have the chance to ask questions of one of the actors. As a teacher, I have found that an especially wonderful experience for the students - to talk to an adult about their craft.
It is now time to decide if you wish to come. Though we have reserved seats in advance, we must make final payment by mid-March. Therefore, we need to receive checks from all those interested by Friday, March 9th.
Tickets are $21 each. We will try to carpool as much as possible. Add $5 per rider to help with gas costs if you ride up with someone else. Please fill out the accompanying form and return by March 9th.
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OregonShakespeare Festival - Romeo and Juliet - April 13
Family Name _________________________________ # of tickets _____________
_____ We will drive up by ourselves.
_____ We will drive up and have room for ____________ more.
_____ We will need a ride.
Please enclose a check made out to Chrysalis Charter School for $21 per ticket.
Chrysalis Family Needs Help
You may remember a news report from a week ago about a pregnant woman who was involved in a hit and run accident here in Redding. Her car was hit by another car which caused her car to flip over. The woman, Marcella Mae Wagner, is the aunt of one of our students and the sister of Melissa Campbell who was an instructional aide for us last year and now substitute teaches for Chrysalis.
Though Marcella’s baby had to be taken by C-section a month and a half early, we are happy to report that the little boy is doing well. He is the first child for Marcella Wagner and David Campbell who have been married for 2 years. Unfortunately, Marcella has a great challenge ahead of her because she has suffered a broken neck and spinal injuries that have left her paralyzed from the chest down.
Marcella does not have medical insurance. Friends and family have begun remodeling their home so it will be wheelchair accessible when Marcella is able to go home. All of this costs money.
There are several ways you may help the family:
- Go to www.youcaring.com, search for Marcella Mae Wagner to make a donation on line.
- Contribute to the Marcella Wagner New Beginning Fund at any North Valley Bank.
- Give your time to help with the construction. Builders, electricians, those who know about handicap regulations and building codes, etc. are needed. Call Melissa Campbell at 524-4702 to leave a message.
- Donate handicap equipment or custom items to make life comfortable, safer, and easier for a paraplegic. Donate building supplies.
- Donate baby things. Needed right now are preemie size clothing and diapers. The family is registered at Target. Look under Marcella Wagner or David Campbell.
- Send cards to Chrysalis and we will get them to the family.
- The family requested all the prayers they can get.
STAR Writing Test for 4th and 7th graders
We need all our 4th and 7th graders (including home schoolers) at school on Tuesday, March 6th to take the California State Writing Test. We will let you know the time for testing next week.
IMPORTANT INFORMATION FOR 6TH GRADERS AND THEIR PARENTS
Please get your 6th grader into your doctor, a clinic, or to the public health Immunization clinic to get a Tdap Immunization and while there check if any other immunizations are needed. All 6th grade students will need proof of a Tdap Immunization before starting the 7th grade in August 2012. It is suggested that you get the Tdap during spring break and bring the documentation to our office when the student returns to school. Getting this Tdap immunization and the documentation to our office before June will really help us be ready for the new school year.
Love & Logic:
Taking Away Privileges VS. Energy Drain Technique
Today I am responding to a question that was posted on the Love and Logic Facebook page.
"Ok, I need some help here. I cannot get my kids to stay in bed after I put them to bed. They come out 5 times a night to go to the bathroom, open my bedroom door to ask questions, and are loud and wake people up. No matter how many privileges I take away, they are still coming out."
After reading this question, I have some guesses, and several suggested strategies to try.
GUESS NUMBER ONE
This parent answers the kids' questions when they call out from the bedroom and reminds/begs them to stay in the room. This encourages them to continue doing that.
It helps to put the kids to bed with this statement: "You've had your time, now it's my time to rest up." When they open the door to ask questions, they don't get answers because this is the parent's time. Don't reward them by answering. Remember that this is now "your time."
GUESS NUMBER TWO
This parent tries to stay calm while dealing with this problem.
Don’t believe the myth that Love and Logic parents are always calm and sweet. Love and Logic parents are calm when delivering consequences, but they are human and their voices are sometimes stern and forceful when necessary.
If one of these children comes out of their room they are met with a parent who gets right in their face and orders them back into the room. The voice is low, determined, and unpleasant. "Bad decision! You get back in that room! This is my time! See you in the morning."
TAKING AWAY PRIVILEGES VS. ENERGY DRAIN TECHNIQUE
Love and Logic does not teach parents to take away privileges as a disciplinary technique. We use the Energy Drain Technique instead. Even though it is similar, the wording creates a different thought process.
If any of these children were to come out of the room for a second time, they would hear, "Bad decision! That's draining my energy! You're going to need to put that energy back tomorrow. I'll let you know how in the morning. Now, back to bed!" If necessary they are physically escorted back to the room.
Plan on consistently using this approach. Expect the kids to keep testing you on it for a while, but don't give in. Keep it simple.
Occasionally we have strong-willed children who need a Strategic Training Session. I will write about that in the near future.
Jim Fay
Community Announcements:
Guitar Teacher, Mike Gregory 229-0419
Mike Gregory is a guitar and electric bass teacher who has worked and taught at Bernie’s Guitar for 10 year. Unfortunately, Bernie’s Guitar store is closing so Mike will be relocating his studio to Music Maxx here in Palo Cedro. He has room for new students. Call him at 229-0419 or 547-7070.
Calendar of Events:
February 14-17 Parent/Teacher Conferences
February 20 No School – Presidents’ Day
April 2-9 Spring Break
April 13 Romeo and Juliet
April 30-May 4 STAR Testing
May 24 Talent Show at 7:00pm
May 28 No School - Memorial Day
May 31-June 3 Spring Camping Trip
June 5 Graduation
